what do i learn in my 20s?
truly baffling to me how jumping into your mid 20s can be so tremendously liberating, yet feeling so trapped simultaneously. there is no one to tell you directly the dos and donts, yet you wish someone could tell you what to do and what not to do. you were given the autonomy to pave your own life on your own two feet, but the world is so vast you can only hope for the best you are making the right choices along the way. and if you do make the wrong choices, you have to live with the consequences. you learn to make peace with fate that there is no such thing as 'wrong choices'; but rather an alternative. there is no handbook or step-by-steps ikea manual in your 20s that could guide you on which screws go where so the foundation of your life does not crumble halfway through the moment you add a baggage a little too heavy for it to bear. you learn to rebuild your foundation and lessen the baggage that it can bear because you have learnt from your mistakes. there is ...